In By Me, we’re the star of the movie. It feels like freedom, until it tips into control or ego. Through Me asks a different question: what greater purpose could come through us?

Pushing a boulder uphill consumes energy. Releasing it to gravity is effortless. The difference is force versus power. When our goals line up with opportunity, circumstances help. When our purpose makes sense to other people, they’re inclined to help too. Things we could never do alone become possible.

It’s harder than it sounds. Power can dull our empathy. Success flatters us into believing we earned all of it. And letting go of how things get done can feel like losing.

In this lab, we practice finding a purpose beyond ourselves. Bring something you’re trying to make happen. We’ll look at who else is affected, what they want, and how your goal could become a purpose that benefits them too.